Listening to other parents’ and Deaf adults’ stories can be incredibly valuable. Their lived experiences can give you insight into what life might really look like for your child and family. But remember, one person’s experience is not the whole picture.
Stories are often shaped by:
- personal experiences and emotions
- what worked (or didn’t work) for that individual
- confirmation bias —
noticing information that supports existing beliefs - missing context or “the other side” of the story
- motivations to inform,persuade or even sell something.
Real-life stories are helpful for context — but not enough on their own to make decisions.
When making informed choices:
- Seek multiple perspectives
- Compare stories with research and evidence
- Verify information with trusted professionals
- Ask: “What information might be missing here?”
- Be aware of “choice-supportive bias” — the tendency to defend past decisions.
Use STORIES to understand experiences.
Use EVIDENCE and expert advice to guide decisions.
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