Imagine or practice having a conversation with a professional.
Describe your goals and preferences and what you want in the long run for your child. The professional will not know the things that motivate your family and are important for your children to participate in. Are you a sporty family/ an outdoors family/ a musical family? Some options might be more likely to achieve your goals than others.
Discuss any anxieties and concerns you might have.
Explain your social circumstances or other issues you might need to take into consideration when you make your decision. You might have other children at home or need to return to work full-time. How will you manage the options with these commitments?
Let them know if you need more information or support to make the decision.